Why the Incests in India are increasing so fast ?

Question

google search "topix daughters crush for father " and you will find a thread of incest girls. , also read this artile http://www.barossa-region.org/Australia/INCEST-IN-HINDU-SOCIETY.html

i have also read this that still in some places ,villages the incest sex abuse is going on . What has happened to people ? is the religion and intellectual thinking is totally gone?

Answer 1

I do not profess to being a psychologist, but I have many friends from India and I have always felt their habits were a bit too close for comfort. I can not say this of all the peoples of India, but I have seen this time and again in the dozen I know and it it is backed by the first link below. Family members show what I term"lover's affection" rather than famial affection-i.e. -stroking the lower curve in the back, lip kissing, rubbing, patting the bare belly(male family members on female family members), from a young age, opposite gender family members share the same beds, dressing and undressing in front of each other, even bathing and showering together.Among family members they always appeared to be too touchy feely.People of ancestry from India, born in America, usually are as restrictive as their other American counter parts. As far as the reason for the incest situation, it stems from a feeling of a lack of love and they control this feeling by controlling the object of their desire-easy access and control.The following links, especially the first one will give some very good incites:



http://www.psychohistory.com/htm/06a1_incest.html



http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/south_asia/259959.stm



http://www.indiatogether.org/2009/apr/chi-incest.htm



http://kamasutranews.wordpress.com/india-sex-rape-poverty/

Answer 2

All fictitious stories are published everywhere.Incest,being illegal,will never be officially admitted.Most people are posting their fantasies.Arranged marriages do not cause/encourage Incest at all.All Hindu marriages are not arranged ones.A.M. s have the advantage of having many filters between the parents of both the prospective bride and groom as well as between the bride and groom.Thereby,chances of failure of a marriage are minimized.Arranged marriages too fail if there is a mismatch.All misconceptions about Hindu marriages ,specifically, are floated by unhappily married people or those who hate/misunderstand/do not know about- Hindus or India.Individual experiences vary and they should be left at that. Many marriages have been decided by the pairs.Again,percentage of failure varies.Child marriages take place among very backward communities,especially tribals.Many such marriages are taking place due to either very stubbornly held traditions or STILL MORE COMMONLY,financial difficulties.

Answer 3

Marriage among Hindus in India is mostly arranged by the parents and relatives.Love marriage is confined mostly to those very few liberal families of models and movies personalities, and to 2% Christian families.Therefore, in an arranged marriage, it is most likely that the girl's father and relatives would prefer choosing his own nephew or cousin as the most desired bridegroom.Hence, the increase in incest relationship.TV and Internet has nothing to do with it except if you are referring to various sleazy stories in the net which are mostly fiction and catering to few perverts only.

Answer 4

Study shows that incest occurs either in the higher or lower strata of people. Secondly, monitoring the movements of two different sexes during puberty and young age gives a rise to Incest.

Answer 5

No incest in India is not increasing, only fake stories in the net are increasing.

Answer 6

It was this way with me; I am from India and I am a Hindu [I give you this info as I want all to have a clear understanding of my position] my mother was very strict with me since childhood but doting towards my elder brother. Since I got to 15 years of age her behaviour suddenly changed towards me. I don’t know what the reasons could be but I guess one on them is that my elder brother is a good for nothing spendthrift. My father works in the BSF and is out station for most of the year. It was also during this time that I started earning a bit. Whatever the reasons her behaviour changed drastically! It started with smiles & nice talk and gradually shifted to frequent kisses, hugs and sometimes massages. All this I never got during my childhood so I was taken aback but then I saw that her affection was a bit different than a mom son relationship entails. Like I notice she lip kisses me often these days instead of pecks on my cheeks, also during massages she tries to, how do I say do more than just massage, like if she is massaging my belly her hands travel a bit too low for my comfort or when she is massaging my leg her hand fondle my inner things right up to my lions! Like a couple of days ago she came to massage me in a bra and petticoat, you can imagine the situation as I was in my underwear only [she insists on it during massages]. She also makes me massage her sometimes or calls me to the bathroom to apply soap to her back. All these were quite ok for I live in India where mother and son are supposed to be intimately close. In my creed Hinduism mothers command is considered more pious than even deities and must be followed at all costs. Hence I carried on but of late even I am uneasy as I sometimes get the hots for her due to her conduct. Like few days back she was talking about my GF and subtly turned the topic towards my sex life. I have to admit I was aroused by her talk and expressions, don’t know why I talked in such detail with her about my sex life, even describing my sex acts with my GF to her! I am myself very surprised on my act. She ended by hinting “if you need any advice or otherwise need any help in this matter I can help you after all I am more experienced in this matter” She smiled slyly and said I need more practice and maybe she can help! I was dumbfounded and she walked away giving me a smile.

Please help me am I reading too much into this or is there something wrong?

Answer 7

i dont know ur source buddy...bt whatever u just said is completely baseless...i'm not denying the fact that there are child marriages going on in India bt u cannot make a generalization in the country of more than a billion...the ground reality is completely different...you will not find that on any website...if you want any details then post another question...i'll be here to answer...

Answer 8

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